The widely accepted point of view in society regarding relationships is that you find your one true love, two become one...and you stay together forever...
You devote your life to someone else, cut of or change the parts of you they aren’t happy with or you think they won’t like, and eventually you become a weird reflection of each other.
Wait, what?? Does that sound joyful to you?
Wouldn’t you rather live a joyful life being the amazing being you are and have someone else joyful to share some of it with?
Using your choice to create your life and loving someone aswell instead of it being the all encompassing, controlling, manipulating and limited existence that we have been trained to see as normal? Are you ready for more?
An enlightened relationship is not a destination that we reach, it is a moment by moment choice that we will sway from from time to time and we will get back on as soon as we realise, without judgement of ourselves or our partner.